Before he left, Jim said his family was doing well. His wife is excited, after beating breast cancer, to get fake tits. And his father is still kicking--and pooping: "A lot of times it gets stuck. So I gotta put on a glove. I got to put my surgical gloves on, and I gotta make sure I'm done with food and everything, and I get up in there. … I've learned a lot of respect for nurses, for home maids."